Some thoughts to share...

Wow, how time flies and we have reached the last quarter of year 2011. Has it been almost 2 months since my last entry? So much has happened in the past few months or so. Yet, so little time for me to write them all down.

Guess what?? i'm happy and glad to announce that i have managed to fulfill and accomplished 80% of my 2011 resolutions. yayyyy!!! what an accomplishment!! way the go,abbe!!!:p i know,i know,self-praise is no praise but the hard works counts, and the feeling of satisfaction is just so good,well at least for now.

Hmmm, whats' next???

Somehow i have wondered, i am sure you have heard people saying – we have to do this and this, plan this and that so that our future is secured?. These talks have been going on endlessly by my parents. I guess they cared for me very much as a parent to their 3 lovely daughters.:P

But what about the present, the time that we are currently living in, the time that will just slip by if we think or plan too much into the future.We work so hard for the future that we just don’t notice that time slips away quietly. Soon, 5, 10 or even 20 years go by, unnoticed.
"All work and no play makes abby a dull girl", :P

I have stopped looking too far into the future because I know the future is actually not within my control. I don’t know what my future holds. I can plan. I can hope that GOD will make the future, that I want, becomes a reality. But, is the future that I want really good for me? I can never know and no one knows.

I have planned my future road maps like how old I want to get married, the number of children I want, the type of house I want to stay in, my career progression, my financial positions but I realised that life never goes according plan. That’s the reality and beauty of life. It is filled with obstacles and challenges that we may never foresee.

I have learnt that living the current moment, without too much planning for the future will have less anxiety, less heartache, less disappointment and you will feel more content and at peace with yourself.

Ernz, i agreed that 'Life is fragile' and who knows what will happen on the next day or future,hence, live life to the fullest and be appreciative of your loved ones and people around you. I want to live in the moment at present spending time with my loved ones, family and friends who have always be part of my life and a place in my heart.

True enough, the satisfaction of achieving good results in life could be so great, irregardless of your career, gaining a higher status or earning more income, it is all back to square one, my family, loved one and friends ~ the most important people in my life whom i want to share and spent time with because no matter what, it is because of them, where i am standing still right now.

Cheers~